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A divorce on Long Island is a difficult and emotional task involving many legal implications for property, finances and children. The most common way to proceed with a divorce is for you and your spouse to hire independent divorce attorneys and utilize the Nassau County Supreme Court or Suffolk County Supreme Court to litigate your divorce. This typically brings with it high court fees and legal costs as well as months upon months of stressful litigation. On the other hand, Divorce Mediation and Collaborative Divorce are becoming more and more popular, less stressful and less expensive methods of divorce for couples facing the termination of their marriages in Nassau County and Suffolk County, on Long Island, NY.

Why Should I Utilize Divorce Mediation or Collaborative Divorce on Long Island, NY?

Your Long Island Divorce is one of the most life changing experiences you will ever experience. While the Nassau County and Suffolk County court systems are there to ensure your interests are protected if you and your spouse are unable to come to an agreement, if you want to save time, money and emotional stress, your goal should be to avoid court intervention, and the costs (financial, emotional and time) associated with it, if at all possible. Divorce mediation and collaborative divorce are two less costly and less stressful methods of divorce, but neither is any less thorough or legally binding.

Divorce mediation and collaborative divorce also allow you and your spouse to control the divorce process. In both of these methods you will not be bound by a judgment a Nassau County or Suffolk County judge mandates, rather, you and your spouse will mutually come to an agreement. No one likes to feel as though they have no control over a situation, and divorce mediation or collaborative divorce will ensure you do not have this sentiment during your Long Island Divorce.

Both mediation and collaborative divorce are out-of-court options that can save time, money, and stress. Here’s how they compare for families in Nassau County and Suffolk County on Long Island, NY.

Side-by-Side Comparison of Divorce Mediation and Collaborative Divorce

Factor Divorce Mediation Collaborative Divorce
Neutral 1 neutral mediator No neutral; each spouse has a collaborative lawyer
Cost Generally lower Higher than mediation, lower than litigation
Who’s Involved You, spouse, mediator (optional review attorneys) Two collaborative attorneys; may include neutral coach/financial pro
Style Facilitated negotiation Team-based, interest-focused
Best For Moderate conflict, both open to compromise Higher conflict but still willing to avoid court
Enforceability Agreement filed & approved by court Same—agreement becomes court order
If It Fails Can litigate later Must retain new litigation attorneys (ethical rule of process)

 

When to Choose Mediation

  • You and your spouse can communicate reasonably well
  • You want to minimize the financial, emotional and monetary cost
  • Custody/property issues are manageable

When to Choose Collaborative Divorce

  • You need advocates for each of you in the room at all times
  • There’s mistrust between you and your partner, but a desire to avoid court
  • Complex finances benefit from a neutral financial specialist

CTA: Not sure which is right for you? Call (631) 923-1910 or request a free consultation.

Need a Divorce Mediator or Collaborative Divorce Attorney on Long Island?

The experienced and compassionate Long Island divorce attorneys at Hornberger Verbitsky, P.C. are also experienced divorce mediators and collaborative divorce lawyers who have helped many Nassau County and Suffolk County couples save time, money and stress using divorce mediation and collaborative divorce. If you would like to learn more about divorce mediation or collaborative divorce. we are encouraged to contact us at 631-923-1910 or fill out the short form on this page for a free initial consultation and case evaluation. We’ll be happy to talk it over with you and help you determine the best path forward for you and your family.

For more information, visit our Comprehensive Guide to Long Island Divorce Mediation.

 

Divorce is never easy, but Hornberger Verbitsky made the process as smooth as it gets. I used the firm for mediation. All emails were answered quickly, and the team was extremely knowledgeable. Patty in particular was wonderful to work with, and very patient with all of my questions. I would highly recommend Hornberger Verbitsky!

Lisa Cavaliere

Frequently Asked Questions About Divorce Mediation Vs Collaborative Divorce

  • Is divorce mediation or collaborative divorce faster than the other?

    Mediation typically resolves faster; collaborative depends on schedules of multiple professionals.

  • Can we switch processes between divorce mediation and collaborative divorce?

    Yes. If mediation stalls, you can move to collaborative or litigation. Collaborative can also pivot to mediation for a specific issue.

  • Does Divorce Mediation or Collaborative Divorce protect my rights more?

    Both can protect your rights. The right fit depends on your needs; we’ll help you choose confidently.

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Robert E. Hornberger, Esq., Founding Partner, Hornberger Verbitsky, P.C.

  • Over 20 years practicing matrimonial law
  • Over 1,000 cases successfully resolved
  • Founder and Partner of Hornberger Verbitsky, P.C.
  • Experienced and compassionate Long Island Divorce Attorney, Family Law Attorney, and Divorce Mediator
  • Licensed to practice law in the State of New York
  • New York State Bar Association member
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  • Suffolk County Bar Association member
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  • Nominated Best of Long Island Divorce Attorney four consecutive years
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  • International Academy of Collaborative Professionals
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