by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Aug 1, 2017
As an experienced divorce attorney, mediator and collaborative divorce lawyer, who meets with Long Islanders considering divorce, I understand that most people are not aware of all the different options you have to legally end your marriage in New York state. If you are considering divorce or have already begun the process, you may be wondering what your options are and how to decide what will be best for you and your family.
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by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Jun 27, 2017
As a Long Island Divorce attorney, I have seen many occasions, where, for a variety of reasons, some Long Island couples facing significant difficulty in their marriage decide that they will not divorce. Sometimes these reasons are financial, and sometimes they are religious or based on personal belief systems. Whatever the reason, there are several options that might work for couples like this, depending on the couple’s goals and objectives. Read on to learn about options for avoiding divorce when it seems all but inevitable.
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by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | May 16, 2017
As an experienced Long Island Divorce Attorney, I’ve met with many people who are curious about how divorcing after a short term marriage compares to a divorce of a longer marriage. Many have heard stories or rumors about divorces that ended with substantial property distributions and large long-term spousal support (also known as alimony) payments. These awards are generally reserved for longer marriages. However, certain issues do arise with short term marriages, and divorcing couples should be aware of the implications. Short term marriages can be affected by:
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by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Apr 4, 2017
Divorce is never easy and can be one of the most difficult and stressful times in your life. This is especially the case if one or both spouses are in the military. A military divorce in New York presents several unique issues to the divorce process. If you or your soon-to-be former spouse is in the military, you should know that there are a few ways that this can affect your divorce. Because of the service that military members give to the country, they are afforded some extra protections under the law when it concerns divorce and family matters.
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by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Feb 21, 2017
From my observations as a Long Island Divorce Mediator, I see that the main cause of divorce is trouble communicating. You might be aware that approximately half of marriages end in divorce, but what you may not know is that approximately 67 percent of second marriages end in divorce. Though one may believe that someone entering into a second marriage is older, wiser, and more committed than they were in their first marriage, these are not the only factors that affect the success of the marriage.
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by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Jan 17, 2017
As a Long Island Divorce Attorney I know that for parents, one of the most important points of focus in divorce is your children’s wellbeing. It is no secret that children suffer when their parents divorce, as it is a life changing event often surrounded by a lot of difficult emotions. (more…)
by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Dec 27, 2016
When divorce is imminent, there is a lot at stake. Stress levels are often through the roof and people often act on emotions and end up making mistakes that will negatively affect their outcome. We have compiled a list of some common mistakes to avoid in your Long Island Divorce. (more…)
by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Dec 13, 2016
As a divorce lawyer on Long Island, I often see the negative side of social media as it pertains to family law proceedings such as a divorce or child custody proceeding. Social media platforms such as Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Snapchat are just a few of the mediums that are used by all generations and in cultures across the world. These are great tools for keeping in touch with family and friends and for sharing information, photos and videos, and for expressing yourself in a forum where others can hear you. (more…)
by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Dec 6, 2016
As the holiday season rolls around, Long Islanders facing divorce or separation or recently divorced are not having the festive season to which they had become accustomed. Many are still grieving their fond memories of holidays past as they learn to adapt to new family dynamics. Sometimes it is not easy to see your children go with the ex for a holiday or even part of one. It is also sometimes difficult knowing that you might have to discuss or explain to well-meaning family members how you’re doing and how things have been. Being prepared and having strategies for making the best of the holidays can go a long way toward making it easier for you now and in the future. Here are some strategies for making the best of the holidays despite your recent or impending the divorce.
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by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Oct 18, 2016
Divorce after age 50 on Long Island is becoming increasingly common. In fact, the divorce rate among people age 50 and older more than doubled between 1990 and 2010, according to one study. Unfortunately, what many people fail to realize is that the stakes are often much higher when it comes to divorcing after age 50. Often, these couples have accumulated more real property and significant assets during their marriages in comparison with younger couples. (more…)
