by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Oct 28, 2025
Divorce or legal separation is never easy, but most parents breathe a sigh of relief once a child custody agreement is finalized. You expect that, finally, there’s stability. You have clear schedules, defined responsibilities, and a sense of peace for your children. But what happens when your ex doesn’t follow that agreement? When pick-ups are missed, communication breaks down, or important decisions are made without your consent?
by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Sep 30, 2025
When people think about divorce on Long Island, NY the first things that come to mind are often lawyers, paperwork, and court dates. But the truth is that divorce is never just a legal process. Divorce is also one of the most significant emotional and psychological transitions a person can face in their lifetime. Whether you’re contemplating legal separation, just beginning the divorce process, or already navigating its aftermath, the experience touches every part of your life: your identity, your relationships, your finances, and your sense of stability.
by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Sep 23, 2025
Most people in Nassau County and Suffolk County, Long Island, NY find Do It Yourself (DIY) divorce appealing for the cost savings. In this post I’ll explain what you need to consider when handling your divorce yourself so you can decide if that makes sense for your situation versus when you should hire an experienced Long Island divorce law firm.
by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Sep 16, 2025
All divorce proceedings, especially those involving high net worth individuals must be approached strategically and cost consciously. As a Long Island NY divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience serving clients in Nassau and Suffolk counties, I and my legal team of divorce and family law attorneys and paralegals help protect your wealth, control your costs and help you make smart decisions in your high net worth divorce settlement while controlling the costs of your divorce.
by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Sep 8, 2025
It’s an undisputed fact: divorce will no doubt reshape your finances. As a divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience practicing matrimonial law, I try to advise my Long Island clients in Nassau County and Suffolk County to take practical, actionable steps to rebuild their budget post-divorce, protect their retirement assets, manage their debt, and update their insurance and tax strategies. I lean on local resources and my legal experience so they can make informed choices about credit, investments, and when it makes sense to bring in a financial advisor or CPA to help you on your path to financial security.
by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Jul 29, 2025
Creating a parenting plan during a divorce or child custody case on Long Island isn’t just a legal requirement, it’s a vital roadmap for your child’s future. A well-structured parenting plan helps reduce conflict, sets expectations, and ensures both parents understand their rights and responsibilities. In this guide, we’ll utilize our more than 50 years of combined family law experience to walk you through how to create a parenting plan that works for your family and meets New York State’s legal standards.
by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Jul 15, 2025
Most people don’t realize how complicated dividing retirement assets can be during a divorce, especially here on Long Island, NY where the cost of living is so high and financial security is ever more important. In this post, I aim to help you understand how New York state law treats pensions, 401(k)s, IRAs, and other accounts so you can protect your future. Whether you’re just starting the process or already facing negotiations with you spouse over your property division, knowing the rules and tools like QDROs will empower you to make informed decisions about your retirement savings and your future.
by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Jul 8, 2025
Divorce isn’t just for the young. More couples over the age of 50 are choosing to separate, a trend now known as “gray divorce.” On Long Island, NY this shift is becoming increasingly common — and it brings unique challenges that younger couples divorcing likely will not face. From retirement planning and Social Security implications to long-term health care and adult children, gray divorce requires a different legal and emotional approach. In this post, we’ll explore what older adults should consider before filing for divorce and how to protect your financial and emotional future.
by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Mar 25, 2025
Most parents face tough decisions during child custody battles and knowing your options can make a significant difference to the end result. In this guide, our experienced custody attorneys will share crucial information on various custody types and effective solutions to secure your child’s best interests. You’ll learn about: Physical custody options, Legal custody implications, Joint custody versus sole custody, Visitation rights and agreements, Strategies for mediation
by Robert E. Hornberger, Esq | Feb 10, 2025
Best Ways to Serve Divorce Papers to Your Spouse Documents Required to Serve Divorce Papers To serve divorce papers, you will need to prepare the following documents: Summons: A document that notifies the respondent spouse of the divorce case and requires them to...
